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Whose Voice Gets Your Attention?

Whose idea was it to read the Book of John in the days leading up to Easter? I mean, seriously, this is getting downright painful! Yet, when I chose to read this book (oh, that’s right—that’s who it was!), I wanted to see how Jesus lived before He died. The goal, of course, is to live the same way!

But in John 10: 7-8 (NIV), the words of Jesus made me think about the choices I have to make in order for that to happen.

“Therefore Jesus said again, ‘Very truly I tell you, I am the gate for the sheep. All who have come before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep have not listened to them.'”

Okay, first of all, if you’ve read this blog for any time at all, you know I’m a magnet for names, attributes, and actions of God so that I can use them on my praise walks! So, of course, I gravitated toward a new G word: “I am the gate!”

But it was the end of verse eight that got me: “but the sheep have not listened to them [the thieves and robbers who tried to lure the sheep].”

I listen to far too many voices that call for my attention and attempt to steal me away from the Good Shepherd. Here are a just a few. (As you read these, maybe you’ll identify with the temptation to listen to their cries for your attention.)

The voice of guilt:

“You sinned in the past—and who wants to listen to someone who did what you did talk about God?”

“You’re no better than the worst of your past sins.”

“You blew it. Everyone knows it. You are what they say you are.”

The voice of “stuff”:

“If you have me, you’ll finally be happy and content.”

“You need more of me to make you happier.”

“I want to be your top priority.”

The voice of toxic relationships:

“You should love me more than you love God.”

“It really won’t hurt you to just try it…once.”

“If you really love me….” or “If you’re really my friend….” (i.e., conditional love)

And those are only a few of the voices constantly vying for our attention!

But the Good Shepherd has this calm, gentle, unflustered, confidence-inducing voice that welcomes us into the gate with these alternatives to the three voices listed above:

The voice of grace:

“My grace is greater than your sin—all of it—so tell people about that!” (Based on Romans 5:20)

“My death on the cross paid for all sin!” (Based on Romans 5:8)

“You are mine. That’s who you are!” (Based on Isaiah 43:1)

The voice of security:

“A foundation of ‘gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay, or straw’ will fall apart; I am a solid, unshakable foundation!” (Based on I Corinthians 3:11-13)

“Godliness with contentment is great gain!” (Based on I Timothy 6:6)

“In me, your soul is at rest; there is no true profit in gaining the whole world but losing your soul!” (Based on Luke 9:25)

The voice of truth:

“Choose God—He will not fail you!” (Based on Joshua 24:15)

“I am faithful. I will give you strength to overcome any temptation!” (Based on I Corinthians 10:13)

“I have loved you with an everlasting love!” (Based on Jeremiah 31:3)

The sheep in John 10 have learned not to listen to the voices of the thieves and robbers but to be solely focused on the Good Shepherd’s voice. So now we have to choose—which voice will we will listen to:

  • the voice of guilt or the voice of grace?
  • the voice of “stuff” or the voice of security?
  • the voice of toxic relationships or the voice of truth?

 

The Answer to WHY

“As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, ‘Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?’ ‘Neither this man nor his parents sinned,’ said Jesus, ‘but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him.'” John 9:1–3 (NIV)

Something inside us—pride? control (an offshoot of pride)? a desire to find the answer so that we can find the solution (again, often a byproduct of pride)? a hope that we can prevent it from happening again, or to others, or to us (yup, also related to pride)?—needs to know why bad things happen. No, the motives aren’t always foundationally bad, but the answers aren’t always available in this lifetime on earth either.

Sometimes we have only one answer: “This happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him.”

And sometimes—no, always—in the end, that is enough.

How to Live Your Big Why

A few years ago, my chiropractor at the time was helping me toward greater wellness—principles that, when I applied them, worked well (which is why I’ve returned to applying them again)! Before we began, however, he had me come up with my “big why.”

Just in case you’re unfamiliar with that term, it’s basically a short, concisely worded, “life-mission-statement-type” answer to the question: What’s your long-term motivation?

Knowing the answer to your “big why” guides you in every area of decision making: If it doesn’t propel you toward the “big why,” don’t do it. If it moves you forward on the path toward living out your “big why,” do it!

My Personal “Big Why”

I actually chose a Bible verse to summarize my personal “big why.” After hearing Nancy Leigh DeMoss use this verse in a similar manner, I chose John 17:4, a verse which quotes a prayer that Jesus Himself prayed as He looked back on His life:

“I glorified You on the earth, having accomplished the work which You have given Me to do.” (John 17:4, NASB)

This verse is what propels my right choices (though, I often make wrong ones when I don’t keep the “big why” and the big picture in view). This verse and this thought remind me that no matter what vocation, relationship, location, or action I may be presented with, it needs to be filtered through this “big why.” If I can glorify God by the manner in which I produce the outcome and through the outcome itself, then it’s a “go.” If not, I must not allow myself to be distracted by it or to be deterred from living out my personal “big why.”

How Jesus Lived His “Big Why”

Though I’m only on John chapter eight today in my pre-Easter reading of the Book of John, I was reminded of the “big why” principle that guided Christ as He walked through the ups and downs that His life on earth presented Him.

In John 8, Jesus was telling the angry, unbelieving crowd around Him Who He was—not to “defend” Himself (He had nothing to prove!) but because Who He was (and is!) meant that He could set them free from the sins that enslaved their hearts.

Every thought, every word, every action, every motivation for Christ was for the purpose of giving glory to God and being obedient to God. In John 8:28 (NASB), He said, “I do nothing on my own initiative, but I speak these things as the Father taught me.” Every step He took, He took under that guidance of God, allowing Him to live out His “big why,” which was to accomplish the work that God gave Him to do.

So what does that look like for my life and your life today? How do we live out our personal “big why?”

1. Determine your personal “big why.”

You can’t live it out your “big why” if you don’t have one! Select a concisely worded, specific, measurable, attainable summary for why you do what you do. You might actually have several little “big whys”: one for work, one for relationships, one for your finances, etc. But the one to start with is the one that will be the overall motivating factor for all areas of your life—the one that encompasses everything!

I must add here that this should be your “big why,” not what your mama or your daddy or your friends or your boss or anyone else chooses for you (though, of course, the input of their wisdom in your life is invaluable when making major life choices). If your motivation is pleasing others rather than doing what God skilled you to do, in the end, you will most likely fail at accomplishing what you’re here to do. Period.

2. Write down your “big why” and memorize it.

Though determining your “big why” is good, having it well-established in your heart and mind (and written in a prominent location where you can easily reference it when needed) will make it more likely for you to actually apply it to your life choices.

3. Begin to apply your “big why” to all of your choices—both large and small!

Should I apply for this job? (“Will it help me to accomplish my ‘big why?'”) Should I continue in this relationship?  (“Will it help me to accomplish my ‘big why?'”) Should I make this choice in this moment?  (“Will it help me to accomplish my ‘big why?'”)

Though at first it sounds confining to have to filter every single thing you do through some “out there” reason for doing it or not doing it, it’s actually very freeing. If it doesn’t propel you forward, you know the answer is “no,” and you get to move on without wasting valuable moments of a quickly fleeting life on something that will rob you of time, energy, and joy because it’s not helping you to accomplish your overall motivating factor! But if it is moving you toward what motivates you, you’ll not be constrained with worry, the need to please anyone but God by your choice, or fear of whether or not you should be investing time, energy, and resources into the decision you’ve made!

I encourage you to take a few minutes today to take action on these three simple—though potentially life-altering—steps and start (or continue) living out your personal “big why!”

Lord, in my secular work, in my sacred work; in my home, outside my home; in my thoughts, in the words and actions they produce may I choose to be guided by a desire to give You glory by the motivation behind it all! 

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Do You Hear What I Hear?

John chapter seven records an event in which, because of their preconceived belief, disbelief, or curiosity in the actions of Jesus, people were gathered together, discussing His possible motives for healing the man at the pool of Bethesda (as recorded in John 5). Their comments were filtered through one of those three categories. The way they “heard” Him affected the way things “appeared” to be.

Jesus, in His unconditional love for them (despite their attitudes, words, and actions), said, “Do not judge according to appearance but judge with righteous judgment” (John 7:24, NASB).

I too often base my judgments on my own past experiences, predetermined conclusions, or predicted outcomes.

Righteous judgment would apply patience, kindness, empathy, humility, love, and acceptance of the result that may be different from my own.

Lord, let me hear through Your loving ears and see through Your loving eyes rather than by filtering the words and actions of others through my selfish and proud thoughts.

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Lingering on the Leftovers

In my finite, third-world-trained mind, I often visualize the true story in the Bible about the feeding of the five thousand as some sort of “hillside, outdoor communion service,” with each person taking his or her morsel of the loaf and a morsel of the fish as the disciple-ushers passed the baskets down the rows. In my oh-so-human visualization of this, after one swallow of each, they had at least had a “snack” to tide them over.

But John 6:12 (NASB) starts with these four incredible words: “When they were filled….”

Jesus provided a meal, not a morsel!

Now that alone is a miracle past understanding, but I’m additionally enthralled by the fact that after “they were filled,” the disciple-ushers went around and gathered up what was left! Seriously. There were leftovers!

So this is where I’m going to park my mind today—on this beautiful, real-life, amazing picture of the fact that Jesus is more than enough!

Lord, all too often I timidly reach out for only a morsel of Your love, grace, power, mercy, etc. Fill me with the realization that You are not only enough to meet the needs of my hungry soul but You are more than enough!

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