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Construction Ahead

I was privileged to have lunch with an amazing local copywriter and author yesterday. We met at a delightful cafe and had such a wonderful time that I can hardly wait to spend time with her again! (I’ll write more about that and tell you about her incredible book one day very soon.)

As one who believes that arriving “on time” is actually arriving “late,” I left early enough to be a bit ridiculous. I was later grateful for that cushion of time!

Because the route was very simple, I did not program the address into my Garmin (nicknamed “Greta”), but simply jotted down on a scrap of paper the road names and the words “left” or “right” as mapped out for me the night before by MapQuest. I followed the route easily. Then I saw it: “Road Closed Ahead.” NOOOOOO!!!!!

I’ve shared before that I am literally a gold medalist in being directionally challenged! I have NO sense of direction. None!

So I followed the signs. However, after taking a winding road that didn’t lead back to the original road, I was officially clueless as to my whereabouts—and I do mean clueless.

I pulled over, fretted, prayed (Yes, in that order. Shame on me!), finally programmed the address into my Garmin for Greta to find, and headed to the cafe without further delay!

Why didn’t I do that in the first place?

Why don’t I do that in my everyday life? So often I jot down the “basics” and think I’ve got it covered. But because I have no sense of direction within me apart from the leading of my Guide and Helper, I need His constant leading. When I rely on Him I know I can confidently follow, and I’ll end up in the right place! I don’t have to wonder if the path is the right one. He created the path, so He will lead me every step along that path!

This morning my mom sent me the following awesome verses and the following reminder: “As you have prayed, given your decision to the Lord, then made it, do not look back and wonder. Know it is the Lord’s plan for you.”

Psalm 32:7-11 “You are my hiding place; You preserve me from trouble; You surround me with songs of deliverance. Selah. I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go; I will counsel you with My eye upon you. Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding, whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check, otherwise they will not come near to you. Many are the sorrows of the wicked, but he who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him. Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous ones; and shout for joy, all you who are upright in heart.”

I might just need to nickname her Mama Greta! 🙂

 

Listen and Learn

People all around the world are glued to their television sets or computers to watch the Olympics. There are thrilling moments, heart-wrenching moments, and yes, even disappointing moments.

The Opening Ceremony set a strong tone for me personally of what was to come as I have watched the events these past few days. I was deeply touched (Okay, fine – I cried!) when the generation to come symbolically thanked their coaches and trainers—the generation that is teaching them to better their best—and then had the unique privilege to light the cauldron(s). I have viewed the Olympics through a different set of eyes because of it.

Those who respect and learn from their predecessors seem to thrive. No, it is not a statement that can be made of all cases, so I want to make that clear right away. Let’s face it, some people thrive even when they are jerks! But for the most part, it can be said that success generally comes from listening to and learning from those who have walked the path before us. Here are a few examples I’ve observed, both negatively and positively, in some of our female athletes:

*Gabby Douglas: One of her first comments to an interviewer after her event was to share important lessons her coach taught her. These lessons included the reading of Scripture to ground her nerves and focus her thoughts. She clearly respects her coach’s wisdom and experience.

*Hope Solo: Her disrespect for those who have gone before her may have been driven more from a defensive spirit and even a desire to stand up for her teammates than from a lack of desire to show respect, but her motives were lost in her words. I know nothing about her other than that her athletic potential is great; but her words are more powerful than any save she could ever make at the goal.  While I want the team to win, I am no longer impressed by her personally.

*Missy Franklin: Missy has demonstrated great character and respect for her family, teachers, coaches, and predecessors. She has shown that listening and learning can go a long way toward achieving success.

Please note that I am merely listing my personal thoughts based on the actions I have observed. Each of these is at Olympics because she earned it. She also can earn admiration by her respect for others and by her reactions to the fame thrown at her in the days ahead.

So what does this have to do with me? I recently completed an amazing Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer titled, One in a Million: Journey to Your Promised Land. One of the important lessons I gleaned from reading through the transition from Moses’ leadership to Joshua’s leadership was Joshua’s great respect and desire to learn from Moses. Several times Joshua tells the leaders he is training to do what Moses taught them. He did not focus on the fact that Moses was not there when they entered the Promised Land, but that Moses was a man of God and should therefore be followed. Joshua knew that learning from Moses was a gift from God and that it was prudent for becoming a better leader himself.

Sometimes the best thing to do is be quiet and listen to those who can teach us by the wisdom they have gained from their experiences of doing it wrong and of doing it right! Listen and learn!

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Thank you for taking time to read today’s post!

 

 

 

Party Line

Lorraine StrohbehnToday’s guest post was written by my mom, Lorraine Strohbehn. I know you’ll enjoy the mingling of this story from days gone by with the truths of God’s Word.

 

It was a blustery Saturday evening in January on our farm in southern Wisconsin. Our rock house with the Round Oak heater in the living room felt warm and cozy. Suddenly the silence was broken by twelve short rings on our telephone. It was a signal ring telling us that there was some kind of an emergency. Mother quickly dashed to the phone to hear what the emergency was that “Central”, the phone operator at the switchboard, was going to report to our party line. After all eight of the receivers in the other homes on our party line had been lifted, “Central” said that there was a chimney fire at the Louis Peterson farm home. They needed help!

Dad grabbed his cap, coat and boots and off he went to help with the chimney fire. A couple hours later he returned home saying they were able to get the creosote out of the pipes, the family was safe and everything was fine. Thanks to “Central” and that party-line telephone, help was alerted in time.

Our telephone— the oak rectangular box on the wall in the corner of our kitchen—was our lifeline to the outside world. It had a receiver on the left side and a small crank on the right side for ringing whatever grouping of shorts and longs were needed for the recipient of the call. The front had two brass-covered round objects that rang when someone on the line received a call. A bit lower on the box was a mouthpiece that was adjustable up and down so that it was a suitable height for the person using it. It was our communication center.

“Central” sat at a switchboard and according to the request of the caller, plugged the cords into the proper holes to connect the person making and the person receiving the call. Our signal was two short rings. I remember as a little girl that it was pretty exciting to get to answer the phone. Of course they wanted to talk to Mother, so I would call to her. As she would talk, often I would hear her say there were “rubbernecks” (eavesdroppers) on the line so she would talk to the caller about “certain things” at another time. However, when there was illness or a need in our neighborhood, Mother would also “rubberneck” to hear how things were going so that we did not have to call them too.

In our small town, “Central” lived at the house next door to the tiny house with the phone switchboard. In this separate little house, the switchboard was at one side of the room and the other side had a curtain that could be pulled across a wire; behind the curtain was a bed. At night, she, or sometimes a member of her family, would sleep at the phone building so that any call made to “Central” could be answered quickly. She had to wake up and get over to the switchboard to answer. Hopefully it wasn’t too great an emergency!

Now I see our children and grandchildren with phone in hand, taking pictures, checking their computers in another state, texting quick messages to friends, caring for business appointments and a myriad of other feats. But I often hear them say things are not downloading or uploading as quickly as they should or that the connection is not occurring as quickly as they hoped. This is surely a far cry from the old phone on the wall and “Central”—but it’s clear to see that it still has its glitches!

Hebrews 13:5 states: “… for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” The faithfulness and availability of our Wonderful Lord brings security and contentment that can be found in no other way. Recalling those days makes me thank the Lord, our Eternal “Central,” that we never have to wake Him nor wait for Him to complete another “connection,” but that He has promised always to be available!

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Thank you for taking time to read “Party Line.” Please feel free to leave a comment for Lorraine.

 

The Sign Now Reads “Open”

Tomorrow’s post will be another “Last Friday of the Month” guest post from my mom, Lorraine Strohbehn. Be sure to check back for another biblically-centered lesson based on a memory from years gone by!

Thankfully, I’m a little extra busy today with some editing and with another new project: Etsy! I’ve been hearing so much about the fun of Etsy that I had to look into it for myself. I did some research and found a lot of good information from “The Selling Sisters,” and encourage you to check out their helpful post about Etsy here.

My love for basket weaving is no secret, so I’m seeking to provide some of my income through a craft I enjoy by selling my baskets on Etsy! I’ve found that, just like I am, many people (men and women) are fans of crocheted dishcloths, so I’ve added crocheted dishcloths into the Etsy shop as well.

The final category of items in my “shop” is THE ORGANIZED BRIDE, the wedding planner I first published in 1994. This hard-copy planner, housed in a 3-ring binder for ease of use, has been used by many brides and mothers of brides through the years.

My Etsy shop may be found at: http://www.etsy.com/shop/PetalsFromTheBasket 

I am praying for the provision of some income as well as having this be another means of sharing His Word through this new venue. Therefore, my “shop” carries the same name as this website. Purchasers will be invited to come to the website and follow the inspirational posts here. I would be honored if you would please pray with me regarding both factors that motivate the opening of this shop.

(Remember to stop back by the blog tomorrow for Mom’s guest post!)

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Thank you for taking time to read this post. Do you have an Etsy shop or do you shop on Etsy?

If so, please leave a link to your shop or tell us what you shop for on Etsy!