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Contentment—Even in the Winter

Lorraine Strohbehn

Today's post was written by Lorraine Strohbehn

Today’s guest post is by my mom, Lorraine Strohbehn. Her monthly guest posts (the last Friday of every month) are favorites here at Petals from the Basket. I know you’ll enjoy this post and learn what it means to truly be content!  —Brenda

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Recently, we have had some of the grey days of winter: snow, slush, ice, and not a lot of sunshine. It makes Spring seem like a long way off. What a wonderful time to start on one side of my kitchen, take a door with three shelves behind it, and make the contents sparkle with freshly washed dishes, dusted shelves, and a clean exterior. Nobody else will notice, but I will. What a wonderful sense of “winter contentment” to know one more section is completed each day!

A few years ago, I read a superb book that was a great blessing and challenge to me. Acres of Diamonds was written by Russell Conwell (who was then President of Temple University in Philadelphia, PA) in the 1800s. He shared a story told to him as true by his guide while they were on a boat on the Euphrates River.

The story went like this: A man by the name of Ali Hafed, along with his wife and children, lived on a farm in Persia. He was a contented man; therefore, he was a wealthy man. One day, a wise man came to visit him. He was declaring the glories of the universe and said that a diamond was a congealed drop of sunlight. Ali was intrigued by his exposition and asked questions about the diamond. The wise man told him that if he had one diamond the size of his thumbnail, he could own his entire county. If he had an entire mine of diamonds, he could have each of his children on a throne.

Ali Hafed couldn’t sleep that night. He was now a poor man; there was so much out there, and he had a compulsion to have it. He sought out the wise man to ask how he could find the location of diamonds. The priest told him that they were always found near a river by which there was white sand. There would be mountains on either side. Ali Hafed went home to make arrangements to sell his farm, place his wife and children in the care of a neighbor, and then go in search of diamonds.

Using the money from the sale of the farm, he began his search from country to country—with no diamonds anywhere. He was discouraged, the money from the farm was gone, and there were still no diamonds in sight. In desperation, he took his own life in Barcelona, Spain.

The old wise man went to visit the people who now owned Ali Hafed’s farm. Upon entering the sitting room, he saw a black stone on the mantle. Out of that stone was a brilliant clear stone that showed all the colors of the rainbow. The old priest shouted, “Ali Hafed must be back!” The farmer said no; he was not, but the stone on the mantle was just something pretty the farmer had picked up in the garden. The wise man said it was a diamond; he knew one when he saw it.

Together they went to the garden by the river in the beautiful mountainous area, did some digging in the white sand, and found other stones like the one on the mantle. There were literally acres of diamonds—right there on what used to be Ali Hafed’s farm. It became a well-known mine that later supplied diamonds for royalty in both England and Russia. Had Ali Hafed searched his own land, he would found that for which he was looking. Ali Hafed would have continued a contented man.

Are you and I contented people? Do we see the riches of God in Christ Jesus in our daily course of living—right in our own backyard? Philippians 4:19 states: “But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” Let’s rejoice in what God has given us—our salvation, God’s Word (which is filled with riches), our family, our place of employment, our friendships, and our ministry—keep it well-polished, and use it for His glory! That is contentment at its best!

“Share” Your Favorite Verse or Quotation

Your favorite verse or quotation might be selected for a future “share”able photo!

I just chose four new scenery photos (from my private albums) to use as “share”ables. I’d love to feature your favorite verse or favorite quotation on them. Leave a comment on today’s blog post, reply to your subscription email, or leave a comment on the Petals from the Basket Facebook Page for a chance to have your verse or quotation featured! Please submit your entry by the end of the day on Friday, January 25th.

Click here to see previous “share”ables. I look forward to seeing (and sharing) your favorite verses and/or quotations!

(Be sure to check back on Friday for my mom’s monthly guest post. This month’s topic is “contentment.”)

 

 

How to Expand a “Small Park”

In the classic novel, Pride and Prejudice (by the inimitable Jane Austen), one of the characters—a snooty upper-crust woman by the name of Lady Catherine—visits the home of the main character, Elizabeth Bennet. Upon entering the home, Lady Catherine must listen to Elizabeth’s overly talkative mother chatter on and on about her family and their comings and goings—without having been asked. Lady Catherine stands quietly for a moment and then merely replies, “You have a very small park here.”

Some believe this simply means that the garden (“park”) was indeed very small. (The Bennets were not a wealthy family, and they did not have a large garden filled with beautiful flowers as were at the homes of those who more affluent.) Others—and I fall into this category—believe that Lady Catherine is bluntly telling Mrs. Bennet that she lives in a very small world: one that revolves only around her immediate family and herself.

As I’ve observed blogs, websites, and even Facebook walls or Facebook groups this past year, I have seen many amazingly written and far-reaching articles or posts that go beyond the author’s own “park.” These people are making a difference in the world! Sadly, I have also seen many bloggers or people on Facebook or Twitter whose only focus is self. Their “park” is very small. To add insult to injury, they seldom leave their own “park” to visit the park of a friend by posting a quick, unsolicited note on Facebook or Twitter or by posting a thoughtful, discussion-centered comment on someone else’s blog.

Instead, they are bomb-blasting others with “like this,” or “support this.” As businesswoman Sandi Krakowski recently stated, that type of posting is merely “pimping” your business. Yes, it’s okay—and even important—to want people to support your page/cause/event or to “like” your page or subscribe to your blog. But one important way to accomplish that is to earn the “likes” and gain the support of your cause or event by occasionally leaving your own “park” and enjoying and/or commenting on the beauty of someone else’s park!

Blog or no blog, here are just a few things you can do to “expand your world” and demonstrate concern for others:

*Start a phone conversation  by asking about the other person first. Then, listen to what they say in their reply!

*Earn the right to be heard by hearing others’ comments and being respectful of their comments—either in spoken or written form.

*Start a thank-you note with the word “you” or “your.” (ex., Instead of “I love the new book you sent me,” start with “Your thoughtfulness in sending me a book by my favorite author was as much a gift as the book itself!”)

*Pray for others before asking God for what you want.

*If you’re a blogger or writer, leave a note of comment or send an email in reply to a blog post that had on impact on you.

The bottom line is this: truly care about others, and your “park” will expand. Then, and only then, will it bring beauty and joy to all who see it!

Suggested reading: Philippians 2:1-11

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Thank you for taking time to read “How to Expand a ‘Small Park.'”
Feel free to leave a comment sharing how you reach out to others.
 
 

Pruning the Petals

In his book, Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy WorldMichael Hyatt uses an interesting expression: “Don’t feed the trolls.” This phrase has come to my mind often since reading it. Though the author was using it with regard to allowing “nay-sayers” to eat up your time by having to defend yourself or by allowing them to get you sidetracked by negative blog comments or Facebook posts, I feel that it applies to many different areas. It’s been on my mind a lot since the start of the year. In just a moment, I’ll share how that relates to this blog.

The blog title, “Petals from the Basket” came from a fefw different sources: (1) I love to weave baskets. Therefore, the word “basket” or the concept of a basket had to appear somewhere! (2) In the wedding planning book that I wrote, The Organized Bride, most of the chapters contain a section of fun ideas or helpful resources. This supplemental material within the chapters is titled “Petals from My Basket.” I wanted to carry that concept of sharing ideas and resources into the blog, but wanted to change the wording slightly. (3) Most importantly, I feel that the basket of my life is filled with many petals that represent faith, family, friendships, finances, fun, and freelance work! (Believe it or not, the alliteration was not intentional to start with!)

January is a great time to get organized, declutter, re-evaluate priorities, and set goals. Some things get added into the basket, and some get taken out of the basket. Because my birthday is one week after New Year’s Day—I joyfully turned 52 on Tuesday of this week!—I often use that day to think about where my focus should be in the coming year.

As I began looking at the various “petals” that I am currently tending to in the basket of my life, I decided it was time for some pruning. Some of the “trolls” are being fed with energy and resources that should be used for gently nurturing that which has the potential to grow into something beautiful and which can flourish if properly cared for.

So, I’m attempting to starve some of the “trolls” that have found their way into the petals I treasure! Things like excessive television viewing, too much time on social networks or favorite Internet sites, being consumed by things that serve no other purpose than fulfilling a whim, and even people who do not edify my daily life are a few of the trolls who will find an empty cupboard when they come a-callin’!

None of those things are bad when kept in the proper balance of all the items within the basket of my day-to-day life. But when they begin to grow roots and overtake the gentle petals of faith and learning and personal growth, they become like trolls that seek to devour the good. If I can maintain well-balanced use of these petals, they can remain, and the joy that can come from their refreshment will only brighten the colorful basket I call my life. But if they can’t….

I’m eager to get back to writing three days a week. I’m also eager for the opportunity to share more blog posts using the resources and life lessons taken straight from my life. Pruning a plant can seem painful, but it’s long-term purpose is to allow the petals to grow brighter and stronger and have a lasting beauty that doesn’t fade!

Let the pruning begin….

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Thank you for taking time to read “Pruning the Petals.”

What do you do to “starve the trolls” that want to take your time, talents, and resources?

Please feel free to “leave a comment!”

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“Sharing” Scripture

In an effort to combine my love for beautiful scenery with the beauty of God’s Word, I will occasionally post a “share”able photo on the Facebook page for Petals from the Basket. If you’re on Facebook, I would be honored if you would “like” the page and use the “share” option to share some (or all) of the photos on your wall. As always, the goal is that Christ would be glorified through the encouragement provided by His Word.

All of the pictures will be photos I have taken, and they will include Scripture verses and/or favorite quotations from great Christian leaders.

Here is the photo that is on the Facebook page today. May its truths be used to remind us of His faithful love!