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Hope

“Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise Him, my salvation and my God” (Psalm 42:11, ESV).

Your soul may be in turmoil today. Your spirit may be cast down. You may be walking through a seemingly insurmountable struggle. You may not feel like praising Him.

And that’s what I love about this verse. The psalmist doesn’t say that he was praising God in that moment. Because he wasn’t.

Instead, he was reminding his heart to find hope . . . to know that he would—again, in the future—be strengthened in spirit by the One Who was his salvation, His God, and the true Source and Focus of that hope.

Don’t lose hope, my faith-friend. You WILL praise Him again!

Stay in Your Lane

“Stay in your lane.” The expression can be said in both negative and positive ways. Negative: “Mind your own business; stay in your own lane and leave mine alone”; positive: “Do what you do well and don’t feel the need to venture into another lane.”

The positive approach to this advice is the only one I care to look at today.

I was recently asked by a friend, “Why don’t you serve in this ministry?” And told by another, “I’m surprised you don’t volunteer at this ministry. It’s such a great organization, and you would be a real blessing there.” She then added, “Don’t you care about this particular need?” Another individual sat in my home and told me I need to fellowship with others more . . . I chose not to reply that we have had several hundred people in our home over the last couple of years. It wasn’t his information to know nor was telling others about our service of hospitality our motive for doing it.

There are honestly so many good things that you could be a part of. But that doesn’t mean that they are the best way for you to serve. Someone like me, who is retired, may say, “Well, it only takes a few hours to donate your time to help out at this organization once a month.” But to the mother of three young children, those hours are not currently an option due to all the extra work involved.

I could go on and on with numerous illustrations and examples. But you, my faith-friends, are smart. You get it.

So please, let your words to others and your actions on behalf of others live out the lessons of varying gifts, strengths, and burdens that are taught in Romans 12:3-13. There is a Holy Spirit Who leads, guides, prompts, helps, prods, and encourages. And it’s not you.

When someone asks if you are interested in a certain ministry or a specific project, that’s fine. When they try to shame you into thinking you’re not loving Jesus because you don’t serve in the same way or in the same place where they serve, that’s just wrong.

Stay in your lane. It’s where you’re meant to be.

Photo: (c) BLHenderson 2026

Prepared

This is what it looks like to prepare snacks ahead of time at the Henderson house. I know I can’t be the only one who will grab the worst possible snack out of the pantry if I haven’t prepared something healthier before the need arises.

If you’ve been here for any time at all, you know that I’m not a huge fan of the “no Bible, no breakfast” philosophy. The reason for that is that some people are more alert, less distracted, or have more time later in the morning or at another time throughout the day. I am, however, a huge fan of making sure that at some point in the day, time is set aside to listen to God’s thoughts (by reading them in the Bible) and talking to Him in prayer. It’s more about having a hunger and thirst for time with Him than about following a set guideline at a set time.

And that’s where these quick thoughts on preparation come in. For me, just like with the snacks, it helps if I prepare my “quiet time” space and any materials I need ahead of time. Otherwise—again, for me—it’s easy to make the excuse that since I can’t find the materials I’m looking for, I’ll just “do my devotional time” later . . . or tomorrow. So my Bible, my Twistables (my FAVE underlining and highlighting tools for Bible study), and a pen are kept right by my chair in the sunroom. No excuses.

It doesn’t take long. It works. And, just like these handy-dandy little pre-prepped snacks, it’s a way to help ensure that I make right choices!

Truth

“I still remember the days I prayed for the things I have now.” I purchased the wall art at Hobby Lobby a few years ago when I needed this reminder. It’s easy to believe the lies that we tell ourselves: that we’re “stuck,” that we have few, if any, blessings, or that we’re going nowhere with our lives.

Joe and I chose the word “truth” for our 2026 focus word, and it’s already been put to the test numerous times, in ways we would not have anticipated or desired. But our intentions have remained, or, in some cases, have been renewed:

1) We will speak truth to ourselves—and each other. The person who lies to me the most . . . is me. I feed myself the hoo-ha that the evil one is setting before me, and I neglect to tell myself what I know to be true. Truth is the most powerful gift we give to our own minds and hearts. It is also one of the most powerful gifts we give to others.

2) We will think on what is true. This principle is straight out of Scripture: “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (Philippians 4:8, ESV).

3) We will seek God’s truth. The evil one started off with Adam and Eve when he asked them, “Did God actually say . . . ?” He continues to ask us that same question today. And yes, he has spoken it into our home and into our lives more than we dare to or care to admit. That’s when reading, learning, knowing, living God’s truth comes into play. That’s when we can reply to the evil one with the truths straight from the Bible, defending our hearts and minds from Satan’s subtle lies.

So when my mind is sidetracked by the gently whispered lies of the evil one, telling me that I have been “cheated” by what I have or have not received, I head straight to God’s Word. And now, I go sit in our living room and remind myself that Joe’s dream of being a pilot and my dream of being a writer were things we each prayed for and things we each received. God, Who cannot lie, has promised us that He will protect our hearts and minds with His peace. He is enough.